How to Slow Down and Actually Experience Europe

The Colosseum in Rome Italy

If you’ve ever come home from a trip to Europe saying, “I need a vacation from my vacation,” you’re not alone. Between early trains, hotel check-ins, and packed sightseeing lists, it’s easy to spend more time rushing than relaxing.

But what if your next trip felt different—less like a race and more like a true escape? Slowing down doesn’t mean missing out; it means experiencing more of what makes slow travel in Europe so special in the first place.

Fewer Stops, Deeper Memories, Slow Travel in Europe

So many travelers try to see five countries in ten days. It sounds exciting—until you realize half your trip is spent unpacking, repacking, and figuring out train schedules. When you limit your trip to fewer destinations, you actually gain more: more time to explore, more room for discovery, and more memories that last.

I recommend staying at least three nights (ideally four or more) in each place. You’ll have time to breathe, to notice the rhythm of daily life, and to find that perfect café where the barista starts recognizing your order by day two.

Travel Days Count Too

Every transfer day is part of your itinerary, whether you plan for it or not. Even short train rides between cities can eat up half a day once you factor in packing, hotel check-out, and navigating to the next stop.

That’s why I often build itineraries around “base cities.” For example, you can stay in Lyon and take easy day trips to Annecy or Avignon. You’ll spend less time hauling luggage—and more time actually seeing the region.

Say Yes to Unscheduled Time

The best moments in Europe usually happen when you don’t plan them. Maybe it’s stumbling across a tiny bakery tucked down a side street or spending an afternoon people-watching from a park bench.

Give yourself permission to have a “do-nothing” day. Wander without a map, follow your nose to lunch, or linger at that outdoor café a little longer than you planned. That’s when Europe truly comes alive.

Stay Local

Instead of the big chain hotels, try smaller, locally owned properties or boutique stays. Not only do they often have more character, but you’ll also get a real sense of the community. You’ll recognize faces, find local favorites, and start to feel like you’re part of the neighborhood—if only for a few days.

Experience, Don’t Collect

It’s easy to get caught up in checking off landmarks, but slow travel is about connection. Let yourself savor a sunset by the river, take that cooking class, or spend the evening chatting with locals. The memories you’ll make in those small, unplanned moments are the ones that stay with you long after you’re home.

Ready to Plan a Trip That Feels Like a True Vacation?

If you’re dreaming of a European getaway that moves at your pace—one that lets you actually experience the destination, not just see it—I’d love to help you design it. Together, we’ll build a custom itinerary that fits your travel style, pace, and budget. You’ll get to experience the true art of slow travel in Europe.